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If You’re Tired of Porn, Try This Instead

It’s the difference between reading a book and watching a movie

When I was growing up, if I wanted to see a naked woman, there weren’t a lot of options. I either had to steel my nerve and hope the convenience store clerk would sell me a Playboy or a Penthouse, or wait until my parents were asleep and try and catch a glimpse of boob on HBO. Neither alternative was ideal.


Nowadays of course it couldn’t be easier. And we’re spoilt for choice. Every desire, fetish and kink, no matter how odd or obscure, is just a few clicks away.
While this has certainly made the process simpler, it’s also made us lazier. I’d even argue it’s lessened the entire experience.
I’m not saying I want to go back to the way things were. But by God was it more satisfying. You earned that wank. That was your reward for all the hardships you had to go through.


What are we being rewarded for today? Turning on our laptops? Correctly spelling Pornhub? Being able to type with one hand?
I don’t mean to disparage anyone for simply using the tools they have at their disposal. But I want to suggest an alternative that I believe is infinitely more satisfying. While you need to work a little harder for it, it’s well worth the rewards.


Try this the next time you want to look at porn.
While every type of porn under the sun is readily available, it’s never going to be a perfect match to what you’re looking for. Maybe some of the details are wrong. Maybe some of the actors are miscast. Maybe some of the locations are off. The point is, it’s not your vision but someone else’s.
This is why the book is almost always better than the movie. Because you’re the one filling in the details. You’re the one doing the casting, choosing the sets, actively imagining every single aspect. But when you watch a film, it’s the opposite. It’s a totally passive experience. You’re just tuning into someone else’s vision.
Porn is exactly the same. And just like regular movies, they gravitate towards what sells. This is why so much of it is repetitive, uninspiring and artificial.
Even if you’re able to find something unique, or that perfectly aligns with your tastes, eventually you’re going to run out of good options. Eventually you’re going to have to compromise, and it’s going to reduce the quality of the experience.
So here’s my suggestion — the next time you want to look at porn, use your imagination instead. Instead of relying on someone else’s vision, create your own.
The easiest way to do this is to simply remember a recent — or even not so recent — sexual encounter. You’re basically just replaying it back in your head, only with full control over everything that happened. You can rewind and fast forward at will, pausing on all the good parts, skipping over the less-than-good ones, essentially reformatting your memories in a way that best gets you off.
But the beauty of our imaginations is that they have no limits. Literally. So why stop at reality? Why not create a scene that involves your secret crush? Or your favorite Instagram influencer? Or the cute cashier at Target? Or your physics professor?
Whatever you choose is fine, as long as it resonates with you.
Once you’ve figured it out, find a comfortable position, and go to town. Just remember that unlike porn it’s a marathon, not a sprint. While the end result is the same, the journey is just as important as the destination. So don’t skimp on the details. Really take your time to create the scene. Be sure to utilize all your senses in order to amp up the sensuality.
For example, what do your surroundings look like? What are you wearing (or not wearing)? Is there music playing? What kind? What does your bed/kitchen table/car backseat feel like? What does your partner taste like?
The best part about this technique? You’re going to have a better orgasm than from watching porn.
Why? Because with porn you’re always the observer. No matter how good the quality or how closely it matches your desire, you’re still just an outsider looking in. But when you craft something in your head, and create something all your own, you’re fully into the thick of it (to use TikTok jargon). This hyper-personalization means it can feel incredibly, tangibly real. With practice, it can feel almost as good as the real thing.
If you don’t believe me, try it and see what happens. You’ve got nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

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